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To acknowledge the existence of the bully   20  plan for getting there, as opposed to devising a   5
                  and his accompanying risks is not the same as   strategy centered on opposition.
                  accepting him as a permanent feature of our   Still, there may yet be a general blueprint for
                  world. I know that if we accept trauma and fear,   beating the bully. He is effective on the street   central text
                  it wins.                                   because he knows the street. He knows which
                     Bullies don’t just go away. Their legacies   neighbors turn a blind eye. He knows what   /
                  don’t just disappear. The bully must be    sections of the street have the lowest traffic and
                  confronted intentionally, his impact named and   are farthest from the objecting gaze of
                  addressed. Even so, it seems there’s no clear   concerned neighbors. The bully picks his spots.   DeRay Mckesson
                  consensus on how to deal with the bully on our   So we need to identify and name the things that
                  blocks. Do we confront him? Match violence   enable him, in order to address them head-on
                  with violence? Do we ignore him, or try to kill   and remove them from the playing field. Then
                  him with kindness? I don’t think there’s a silver   we need to expose the bully and all the ways he
                  bullet to handling the bully, no one-size-fits-all   is able to perpetrate his actions, stripping him of
                  strategy. But the right strategy has to be rooted   the agency that he seeks to strip from us.
                  in a context bigger than the immediate one, has   We need to remind the peers of the bully
                  to be rooted in more than aiming to end the   that they benefit from bullying even if they are
                  presence of the bully himself. We must focus on   not themselves the transgressors. Indeed, they
                  the type of world we want to live in and devise a   benefit from it, but they are tarnished by it.























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                    This is Bull Connor, the Commissioner of Public Safety in Birmingham, Alabama during the Civil Rights
                    Movement.
                    Mckesson says that we can recognize in Bull Connor the bully of white supremacy. How does this
                    photo depict Bull Connor as a bully and as a symbol of the oppressive force of white supremacy?

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