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To chip away at the humanity of select groups is   don’t always remember to prepare for the day
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                     to chip away at humanity itself.          when the bully is no more. We will need a vision
                        As long as the trauma, the pain he causes, is   for that time too. If we don’t have a vision for our
                     present, the work of exposing the bully will be   desired future, how can we plan to achieve it? If
                     present. We identify what props him up and we   you cannot imagine it, you cannot fight for it.
                     remove it: If he is propped up by the death of a   When we confront the bully, we are confronting
                     people, then empowering and rescuing become   our fear and reclaiming our imagination. There
                     part of that exposure. If he is propped up by   are those who cannot imagine a block without a
              Changing the World
                     artificial division or the propagation of false   bully. We must all imagine the block without a
                     information, then partnering together and   bully, otherwise we cannot get there.
                     focusing on truth are part of that exposure. If he   When I am most in fear of succumbing to
                     is propped up by his effort to pull us apart, to   the bully, of allowing him to redefine my space,
                     widen the gap between winners and losers,   my world, I am reminded that the street existed
                     then standing in solidarity with the      before the bully did. We were free before we
                     disenfranchised and oppressed becomes part   were enslaved. We are born to love before we
                     of that exposure. If he is propped up by a shift   know pain.
                     in the focus of the work, then reminding     When I was nine, I didn’t know how to
                     ourselves of our main objectives becomes part   challenge the bully. I thought I was alone. The
                     of that exposure.                         task of conquering my fear, of exposing him,
                        When we think about engaging and   25  loomed so large in my mind’s eye that I was
                     defeating the bully, we must remember that it   overcome by it. If I hadn’t gone to Ferguson and
                     isn’t just about getting home, it’s about thriving,   stood toe to toe with other protesters on the
                     and that our goal is not to switch places with the   streets calling for justice, naming our bully, and
                     bully, but to end bullying.               saying enough is enough, I’m not sure I’d have
                        This is by no means an easy task. The   the courage to confront him today.
                     presence of the bully is difficult to overcome and   In each generation there is a moment when
                     the residue is difficult to shake. I stress the   young and old, inspired or disillusioned, come
                     importance of imagining our ideal world because   together around a shared hope, imagine the
                     we naturally gravitate toward methods for   world as it can be, and have the opportunity to
                     achieving our desired outcomes. Indeed, we focus   bring that world into existence. Our moment
                     on tactics — how do we beat the bully? — but we   is now.


                                 Understanding and Interpreting

                                 1.  Reread paragraphs 1 through 3. Which details of Mckesson’s experiences with the bully stand
                                  out most to you? Why do you think they stand out, and how do they affect your understanding
                                  of Mckesson’s personal story as evidence?
                                 2.  While the majority of the first half of the essay focuses on Mckesson’s experiences with his
                                  literal bully, in paragraph 4, he writes, “Of late, I’ve thought about the bully in the context of our
                                  present world versus the world that we aim to create for the future, and considering him has
                                  transformed the way I think about both.” Describe the shift Mckesson makes here and explain
                                  why it is important to his argument.
                                 3.  Explain what Mckesson means when he says that a bully “wants his tyranny to become the
                                  norm” (par. 8).

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